Changing attitudes, changing lives: What survivors are saying about our Voices and Faces Project writing workshop.
As an Anishinabe elder coming from a family with generations of abuse in our history, my eyes are opened to a new way for healing to begin. For thousands of years we have had an oral tradition of telling stories. I'm hopeful that somehow we can communicate with writing as well."
- Roxanne Defoe, Milwaukee participant 2016
I was impressed to find the weekend as much about good writing as about processing experiences of violence and abuse. It seems to me that there is a very thin line between doing that badly and doing it well, between honoring the stories and perfecting the telling of the stories. Thank you for being brave enough to bear witness to all of our stories and for striving for acknowledgement, understanding and reform through the craft of writing".
- Carrie Anderson , Seattle, Washington USA
Recently I presented a workshop at the Washington State Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs. The title was “Breaking Down the Barriers: A Deaf Survivor’s Story”. The story was my own. I used writing from the workshop as my opening, along with visual imagery and storytelling. This was my first time publically sharing my story. A huge chunk of the credit I received goes to you all for the amazing work you continually do for survivors. I am committed to finding a way to bring this to our Deaf community here in Seattle”.
- Rhonda Cochran , Seattle, Washington USA
The Voices and Faces Project's 'Stories We Tell' testimonial writing workshop had a profound impact on my life. Other survivor stories became the inspiration for me to begin to explore the issues of violence of abuse that lay parallel to my own rape. The workshop creator (R. Clifton Spargo) and facilitator (Anne K. Ream) created a safe space where I could explore unresolved pieces of my past, and understand the value of testimony."
- Janet Goldblatt Holmes, Barrie, Ontario, Canada
Beneath all of the rage and shame and generations of silencing, I am a star, bright and pure, solid, free, and eternal. This is my authentic self and my authentic voice. Thanks to Voices and Faces Project's writing workshop, I am getting to know this voice. I am humbled, empowered, and deeply grateful for being brought into the Voices and Faces process and community. "
- Paige Frank, Edmonton, AB Canada
As a male survivor of sexual violence, I can’t begin to describe the empowering synergy that resulted from the Voices and Faces Project writing workshop experience. The positive effects of that weekend still continue for me. "
- Garth Wadleigh, Cleveland, Ohio
The Voices and Faces Project's writing workshop was a communion of spirits and an ignition of my fire for a world remade by true witness. Hone your creative process (through this workshop) and in doing so, you will find the voice that will change everything."
- Rachel Monaco-Wilcox, Milwaukee, Wisconsin
There are no words that can justly describe the incredible experience I had at the The Voices and Faces Project’s testimonial writing workshop. All I can say is I only spent one short weekend with my fellow writers but I miss them everyday, I feel them out there in the world, and I take heart in knowing they are there. Thank you to everyone at Voices and Faces for bringing us together. "
- Clare Gagne, New York, New York
How can I tell what it’s like to be walking a path alone for so many years, and to then find that others have been walking a parallel path? I’m so glad all of our paths converged in this workshop, and we no longer feel alone. "The Stories We Tell" was a gift, and a godsend. "
- Therese Guise, Quad Cities, Iowa
The Voices and Faces Project writing workshop reconnected me to myself through writing, but in a process with others which I have never experienced before. Through the sharing, I became more whole than I thought possible. Perhaps it is that their scenery wasn't so different from mine. Although the faces varied, I heard my voice through theirs."
- Joua Yang, Milwaukee, WI
I have had a propensity to 'go it alone' in the trials and tribulations of my life. This, compounded with the isolation that is often inherent in the experience of sexual violence, has been a problem for me. But through The Voices and Faces Project's writing workshop I found my voice—and I found the joy that comes with realizing that I don't have to go it alone. Thank you for affording me the opportunity to be heard, to hear others, and to experience immeasurable healing."
- Elaina Meier, Wauwatosa, WI
The Faces and Voices Project writing workshop was a life changing experience that launched me into a new appreciation for the value of my voice, my truth, and my ability to serve through using both without hesitation or fear."
- Imani Capri, Cleveland, Ohio
What I witnessed during the Voices and Faces Project's 'Stories We Tell' writing workshop was palpable, raw courage and strength. From the moment I walked into the room and met those with whom I would spend the next two days, a shift began to occur within me, as my feelings of fear and shame evolved to hope and possibility. Together, we not only shared the weight of each other's pain, but also drew on each other's strength—collectively saying 'NO' to the stigma that society tries to place on us as victims of sexual violence."
- Laura Swift, Davenport, IA
The Voices and Faces Project's "Stories We Tell" Writing Workshop provided a safe and comfortable environment for survivors and their allies to share our collective experience. It was an extraordinary and transformational process. To this day I still feel inspired by the courage of the other workshop participants."
- Serena Curr, Chicago, IL
The Voices and Faces Project writing workshop went beyond anything I expected it could be. I learned so much about myself as a writer, and interacted with other survivors in a way I hadn't done before. Through the exercises and the amazing workshop reading package, I was able to find my voice and tell a story I didn't think I ever could."
- Christa Desir, Oak Park, IL
January 14-15, 2017
February 6-7, 2016
September 10-11, 2016
October 22-23, 2016
October 29-30, 2016
November 7-8, 2015
October 24-25, 2015
October 17-18, 2015
July 25-26, 2015
April, 11-12, 2015
November 8-9, 2014
October 18-19, 2014
June 21-22, 2014
April 5-6, 2014
January 18-19, 2014
November 30—December 1, 2013
October 5—6, 2013
November 10—11, 2012
June 1—2, 2012
April 12, 2012
March 10—11, 2012
April 14—15, 2011
March 26—27, 2011:
Here is a selection of some of this writing, from our Workshop.
Read Workshop Writing